Small breasts

yes i agree with you. It gets me down all the time. Im a 32A and althoughmy boyfriend says that he loves me and it doesnt matter, it still hurts to see him looking at other girls with larger chests.

no they look like small breasts y?

really? how old was she? did she have a boyfriend?

She was married to a bore.

yeah but he loved her and she was happy?

are you taking the mick???

and we all thought that you were being serious then. guess that there really are no blokes for us out there

i dont know what the eggs you eat look like!!!

has any one tried any breats enlarging tablets??

[Andy R]

I want to dispell the myth that all men like big breasts.

I prefer smaller ones and I'm not an introvert or repressed as doctors like to acuse small breast preferers.

I think that woman have been conned by all the adverts on tv and in magazines that women have to be large with cleavage.

Don't worry about it girls, there's plenty of men who would love you - we just don't get to heard very often.

By the way you look great in under wear because you can wear thin flimsy strapped stuff instead of great big bands of elastic material to hold you up.

Hope that this is of any use to you.

Cheers, Andy

[mel]

Yeah i agree you never see cat walk models with DD's!! large boobs on a slim girl dont look right do they?? and infact i think if a slim girl has large breast they will make her look slightly larger.

[Foxy]

all i can say 4 myself is, that up 2 the point where i was without a boyfriend, i was a 101% happy with the way i was... small breasts or no breasts (18 years old, 32A). But now, having hooked up with a lovely guy (27), who... yeah, loves me and all... but makes comments CONSTANTLY on big boobs... on TV, mags, his female friends... brings me down more and more... leaving me with less and less self confidence... (which i always had plenty of). i can't find myself blaming him though... i keep telling myself, "he's only a man.." (no offence guys!!! its just a 'cheer me up' line) "... and that he doesn't realize he's hurting my feelings with this...etc" It's so annoying... and sometimes worrying that i'll loose him 2 a bigger chestet girl. Do u guyz really want big boobs THAT badly, or is it just a male thing u just always have to mention here and there?

[mel]

foxy i feel the same!!
when i was single my bra size was never an issue and now im with my boyfriend i think it has become one.

i cant watch tv without getting jealouse of all the large breasted women my boyfriend fancies.

[Foxy]

well, mel... i'm glad i don't seem 2 b the only one here feelin like dat... but tell me... do u think this factor is an issue worth getting jealous over, or not? i mean, is it a man's thing like it is a woman's to talk over great shoes and fashion...? or not..?

[mel]

hi foxy

sometimes i bring it up and me and my boyfriend argue and other times i just cant be bothered to talk about it. depends how you feel. i told my boyfriend that i find it hurtful when he talks about other women..... so he doesn't say as much about the subject but the thing is he still thinks it.

no i dont think its like how women think about shoes.. afterall we are not getting off at looking at these shoes are we??

[Foxy]

Good answer mel, didn't look at it that way... but you're right. The same here, even though he doesn't necessarily say anythn anymore, you can see he thinks it... GOD!

Honestly.

Listen up... I have thought of surgery, but QUICKLY went off the idea when seeing a programme about the whole thing going wrong, not to mention the expense of exchanging them every so often... yeah right! But... have you heard of the "herbal wonders", tablets you take for a certain time helping you grow a cup size or two larger? Haven't taken any yet, but don't you think its worth a try..? or ...

...even if us girls make the effort, do grow slightly larger... our men will still be drouling over double DD's? I mean, there's only so much a woman can grow naturally, and I don't think (nor do I want) an extreme change.

Quite frankly, I don't think they'd appreciate it, would they? As well as the fact that at the end of the day, if I'm happy the way I am... hmm?

[mel]

i totally agree with you foxy!!

i have tried them tablets they cost me a stupid amount of money and to be honest they have worked but not as much as i would have liked or hoped!!

it was my boyfriend that really thought it was a good idea for me to take them. funny that??

i had thought about having an op too but the thought of anything going wrong its too worring.

i agree with what you say that even if we did grow DD's all of a sudden i know in the eyes of my boyfriend i will still never compair to miss tweedy from girls aloud!!

there only fat any way so i dont see why men get off on them soooo much. we never talk about the size of there manly asset do we!!

[Foxy]

You have tried them tablets? didn't work quite as you wanted... but u did mention that it did a bit... tell me, HOW MUCH MORE did they grow... from what size to what size? (if you don't mind, of course). I mean, as I said, I'm considering them, but whats da point if they don't work... right? rather spend da money on some shoes! (or a good vibrator if my man ain't big enough for me! ) (in ya face, ladz...)

As for your boyfriend suggesting them 2 u... i liked your sarcastically flavoured comment afterwards "funny that"... lol... just goes to show, men are so insatiable about big tits, even if we had them, they'd still want bigger ones...

girl, all i wanna say... be yourself... if you've physically tried what you could've to satisfy your partner about your breast size, and don't intend to go to extreme options as an op(good 4 u)... that's all you could've done... he either loves ya the way u are and appreciates the fact that you have the nerve to actually hang around with him (considering his attitude towards theses issues)...

As for big breasted women... well, consider them either lucky, or ... maybe unlucky too at times... i mean...

they catch the eye very often (if not always) only coz of their breasts and arent taken seriously when meant to be taken seriously... where as us, we get to practice and crystalize our great personalities to catch the eye, which, at the end of the day (after looks and breast size) is second most important... (in men's eyes)... and I guess they just can't have everythin. They gotta choose either a sex kitten for the nights, or a charizmatic lovely lady(who can be a tiger in bed just as much) to spend the rest of their lives with...

do ya catch my meaning?

[mel]

foxy you are soo right and i do understand everything you are saying because it is true. Glad you found my sarky comment funny just goes to prove that your comment about personality true.

Of course i dont mind telling you about the tablets. They are called erdic.

i heard about them from my cosmo mag as one of their writers tried them. i bought 3 boxes and they cost just over £300 if i can remember that right.

So i tried... you have to take 5 tablets half and hour after breakfast and another 5 after lunch. plus you have to drive 2 litres of water every day which is quite a task as i spend most of my days on the loo!!

i am still the same 32A as i was when i first started taking them. the 3 boxes i bought were ment to take me to a b!!! but i have noticed that they have got heavier and more full but not quite a b.

i was really upset that they didn't work as much as i wanted. my boyfriend thought that i should not buy any more and then something changed his mind and he bought me another 3 boxes.

go on wwx.erdic.co.uk for more info about them foxy.

i have left my email address if you want to email me any private questions that you may not want every one to read.

how are things with your boyfriend? bought that vibrator yet??